Last
week I had the rare opportunity of talking to a group of Christian worshipers
on the imperatives of gratitude to God. The
succeeding comments, phone calls and personal interactions that accompanied the
message deepened my thought on the issue of gratitude holistically. One
critical question that wallowed through my mind in all of these was ‘the place
of fellow mortals in our attitude of gratitude’. The big question for me was ‘beyond God, do I owe men gratitude? YES!
Was the overwhelming inner response I got.
Not
just to settle for a lesser debate I searched further for spiritually based
evidences to this position. A number of bible based stories flashed through my
mind to concur with the fact that every man indeed owe another man gratitude
for what God has used him to do in his life. Let me share this simple but
profound story to buttress my point.
The Ten Lepers
This
is one of the celebrated teachings of Christ that is used to depict the need
for Christians to show appreciation to God for the good they receive from Him. No
issue with that perception- except that in my discussion last week, I sought a rather
different view on the issue and enquired rhetorically whether our appreciation
should be based on only miracles and tangible blessings we can count? (See Gratitude:
the right attitude for spiritual Health for more on that).
In Luke 17:11-19 from where the story is
culled, an account was given of Christ’s journey to Jerusalem, in which Jesus
traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee. As he was going into a
village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance and called
out in a loud voice, "Jesus, Master, have pity on us!" When he saw
them, he said, "Go, and show yourselves to the priests." And as they
went, they were cleansed. One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud
voice. He threw himself at Jesus' feet and thanked
him -- and he was a Samaritan. Jesus asked, "Were not all ten
cleansed? Where are the other nine? Was no one found to return and give praise
to God except this foreigner?" Then he said to him, "Rise and go;
your faith has made you well."
Even though I do not intend to analyze this story in its full theological perspective, I will however consider the following critical points of the story:
i.
First there were
ten lepers healed but only one returned to show appreciation to Christ (Verse
15).
Whatever was
responsible for this must fall between forgetfulness, procrastination or
outright ungratefulness. The latter perhaps represents a really bad attitude.
ii.
The other major
concern of Christ was expressed in verse 17- and Jesus asked, "Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?
Let
me perhaps explain here that Christ was still with his disciples on earth and
as at this time it was Christ the “human” working under heaven’s mandate. Only Jesus
Christ holds the dual status of being man and God. Even though he was not
interested in getting any human reward from the other nine lepers, he was
worried as a normal human would as to why the nine did not show up. The answer to
that is another day’s discussion, but here is the moral to lesson-men deserve and expect their fellow humans
to show gratitude for charities received in kind and otherwise.
We
may argue this differently as to why should men seek to be appreciated for their
kind deed, would they not forgo the attaching blessings by this act? Yes! That is
true only if the intention behind the good gesture is to gain public recognition.
In the absence of that which only God can determine- it is appropriate before
God and men to appreciate others for the good role God has used them to play in
our lives.
Sometimes
it seems to me as if we have a slightly negative practice of this principle. It
is common for people to reserve all gratitude they owe people till their
funeral when they speak of all the good works of the person-obviously because we
do not want to speak evil of the dead. We must however learn to appreciate
persons whom God have used to bless us throughout a year.
It
is possible for us to say I owe only God my gratitude-No Doubt! But God will always
use men to accomplish His plans in our lives. As I think further of how best to
reinforce this concept in our minds, it became clear to me that for a man to be
called a father (a process that seems purely natural) he requires the support
of a woman who would bear him children. Even though it is God that gives
children, no man would boast of being a father without the biological support
of his spouse or partner. Invariable we need men and owe them gratitude as well
for all God has used them to achieve in our lives.
The
Action Point:
Just before you stop reading this, I
want you to do the following:
i. Carefully think of those folks God have
used to make the year 2012 a blissful one for you.
ii. Make a list of your “10 most
influential Persons of the year 2012”.
iii. Do
not stop there complete the process by sending them an SMS of appreciation and
thanking them with specific reference to what God used them to achieve in your
life this year.
Shalom! Shalom!!
Shalom!!!
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